If You Wanna Be a Queen...

Remember, you can do anything that you want to do. If you want to live in a comfy little house with a comfy and sufficient income, that is totally possible. If you want to be a queen/king with a crown, throne and your own castle, you can do that too. But in order to make this happen, there are a few rules that you have to follow.

1. Act Like A Queen: Think about it this way- if you're constantly worrying about money, constantly complaining that you're poor and nothing in life is going your way, if you can't take yourself seriously, how is anyone else going to do so? Do whatever it takes, dress like you've got to impress an entire world, buy a crown and wear it whenever you're on a grind, look yourself in the mirror and say "I am royalty, I've got money to spare" until you start to believe it. If you want to run the world, you'd better start running your own world.

2. Think Like a Queen: Remember, your mindset is magic. Playing the part is only the first step- if you want to be a queen, your act has got to be so good that you convince yourself that you're royalty. Write about all of the rules that you will set once crowned (for a legit country, or even just for your household), draw your family crest and put it all around your home, speak with authenticity and articulacy. You deserve your throne once you believe that you do.

3. Don't Settle: Queens don't settle for the next best castle, they don't let anyone sell them short and they expect the absolute best. Now, I don't mean to say that you should be stuck up over everything, but if you want a 10 bedroom castle and you can only find one with 8 you'd better plan to hire a contractor or keep on looking. If you're asking for more from your already shitty job, quit and go find something that makes you happy. Stop settling for second best or less. If you want the best you'd better go out and get it- just don't be a dick about it.

4. Feel Like a Queen: If you have not been feeling so crazy about yourself, it's time for some pampering- some ideas:

- Get a mani-pedi

-Get your hair done

-Do a kickass workout

-Buy some new, sexy & suave clothes

-Spend a day making and enjoying your favorite meals

-Hire someone to clean the house (just once) How awesome does it feel?

-Buy a new phone/computer

-Shitty, tiny, old mattress? Royalty should sleep on a Queen sized bed shouldn't they?

-Keep shit prim and proper

Those little peeves that come up throughout the day are getting in the way of you and your castle. If you feel like everything is wrong, it'll never be right.

5. Always Follow Your Personal Laws:

Okay, so don't go killing or stealing from anybody, let me explain. If you keep compromising your own happiness because you think that's how you're going to make it big, you've got another thing coming. Don't do anything that your heart isn't in alignment with. Don't go stripping for your investment money unless you're totally okay and comfortable with doing so. I'm so serious, some people are more willing to do some things than others and that's totally okay- but if that's not you, it's just not. Don't go against yourself in ways that aren't going to benefit your soul- you'll carry that with you always.

I think you're a goddamn rock star, do you?

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